In the past, I have often been asked, “What is your passion?”.  Throughout life, I have had strong feelings about certain things, but can't say that I was truly passionate about them. When my twenty-year marriage ended, I went on a mission seeking information on a subject that had never been taught in school - one more important than the impact math or language would ever have in one's life. What I learned was profound, I believe it leads to one of the most important decisions a person can make... choosing the right partner for a loving and fulfilling relationship.

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Relationship failure sucks, doesn't it? Have you ever been so frustrated and unhappy that you just wanted to be on your own for the rest of your life? Well, like you, I was there. How could I be in this position? I'm a good person: caring, kind, creative, smart, curious. And yet, there I was. I can recall the first time I walked into my empty house. It was quiet, like it had never been before. The realization was surreal; I was on my own. I wallowed in misery for a period of time and then decided that I needed to get back to the person I was... the person I had lost... ME.

So instead of throwing in the towel, I began to research every topic about dating and relationships I could find. How do you meet people in today's world? What causes attraction? What does it mean to be high value? What are the differences between masculine and feminine energy? And more importantly, how do you successfully market yourself in the dating world? I've always had a problem-solving nature and was curious about the hows and whys of human behavior. So I started on my journey as a single, divorced mother of two. First step - getting comfortable on my own doing things such as dining for one at a restaurant or sitting at a bar striking up conversations with folks around me, etc. I began to ask women and men of all ages one simple question "How do men differ from women?" Their answers fascinated me! ...see blog below.

My passion was driving me. After a period of recovery time, and a clearer connection to who I really was, I decided to venture into the world of online dating. I wanted to test what I had learned in the "real world." I will never forget the first match that popped up for me... a hard-core fisherman dude complete with long, gray beard, proudly displaying his catch-of-the-day. Wow, not what I expected! I wondered how this man "matched" with me since, at first glance, we seemed to have nothing in common. Ohhh - note to self - remove from profile that you enjoy fishing! With many years experience in marketing and art direction and viewing countless profiles, I was shocked to see how people represented themselves in an attempt to find love. So many single people trying to connect but unaware of the image they are projecting. I came to a realization... I need to help! This led me to the next step to become professionally-trained Relationship Coach. With the wisdom I've always had on human behavior, mindset, and now relationships, I finally discovered my passion, or better yet, my purpose... helping people, just like you, get into action using their inner superpowers to thrive in life and their relationships. 

Here's to YOU!